Why Selfishness is the Key

We're often scared to be categorized as selfish. Throughout our lives, we strive to demonstrate that we prioritize others before ourselves. Our ideas, desires, and interests take a back seat. Ironically, this self-neglect is not only detrimental to our well-being but also impacts our relationships with loved ones

Vibrationally wise:

Life serves as a reflection of our actions, particularly in how we nurture our inner selves. Placing others above you while neglecting your own well-being cultivates a mindset of self-rejection and abuse. This internal cultivation inevitably manifests in your external reality, resulting in instances of betrayal, abuse, and rejection from those you hold dear. The paradox is that despite your efforts to help, others may not only fail to appreciate your actions but may continually demand more, prompting the realization that something within needs to change. That something is the collection of your inner thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.

I once heard a saying that has stayed with me and continues to resonate: "You can lie down for people to walk on you, and they will still complain that you are not flat enough." Though I don't know the author, these words hold profound meaning for me. You can be the sweetest, the most people-pleasing person that God ever created, others around you will always find something you haven't done or a flaw you possess. You can place all the blame on them, but it won't serve any purpose. In fact, that has absolutely nothing to do with them and everything to do with you. They merely mirror the behavior you exhibit towards yourself. There's no escape from this truth; you can't deceive the universe. The moment you realize this and embark on inner change is when the shift occurs, and your reality begins to change."

Fact wise

When you lack the energy to help yourself or consider your own needs, it becomes challenging to give anything to anyone. To offer you need to have. Sounds logical right? How can you provide if the only thing left inside is sadness and emptiness? By considering yourself you're helping everyone around you. Once your cup is full, you can pour into the lives of others.

With that being said,

I hope you use this information,

Namaste,

Diana